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ハワイ婚活何からスタートすればいい?

お見合い写真ってどうとればいいのかな?
お洋服はどうしたらいい?どういう感じがいいのかな?
自己紹介文ってどうやってとればいいのかな?

まずは、写真を準備しましょう!

国際婚活において
写真の重要性

まずはアメリカ人男性の方に好まれやすいお見合い写真のイメージをご覧ください。

日本のお見合い写真などとはまったく雰囲気が異なります。アメリカの海外ドラマなど参考にされるといいかもしれません!エレガントでセクシーな感じですね。

写真で、好きになれそうなタイプかを判断されます。少しでも相手の興味を引き、印象に残る写真が用意できれば、次のステップへ進めるということになるのではないでしょうか。お見合い写真は、形式が決まっているわけではないので、どのようなものでも構わないのですが、日本の硬い感じのお見合い写真より、お化粧をされ、髪型を整えて華やかなお洋服を着てをお薦めします。とても重要です。

証明写真だったり、携帯カメラで自分で撮ったような写真だったり、「一体どこで撮ったの?」と思えるような画質が不鮮明でボヤケていたり、「何してるの?」と思えるようなプライベート写真の切り抜きだったり…ダメとは言いませんが、イメージは良くないです…お見合い写真は、容姿の良し悪しということよりも、相手に好印象を与えられるかどうかの方が大きいのです。イケメンでも表情が暗く冷たい感じでは、女性にはウケませんし、見た目が冴えなくても表情が明るく、人柄の良さが感じられれば受け入れてもらえるというものです。

極端に言うと、写真によって結婚チャンスが変わるのではないかと思います…パッと見た第一印象によって合否が判定されると言っても良いと思います。ましてや、一生一緒に生活していく相手を決めるわけですから、より容姿へのこだわりが強くなるのは当然かもしれません。

素敵な写真は婚活への第一歩です!アドバイスもさせて頂きますので是非色んな写真を送ってくださいね!


自分らしく、素敵な笑顔で!

素敵なプロファイルは
婚活の第一歩!

弊社はスタジオでの写真撮影を勧めております!または、光のある屋外、屋内でより綺麗に見えるように素敵な写真を撮られてください!

お洋服について明るい色合いのお洋服。白、ピンク、黄色、オレンジなど、明るく柔らかな色合いのお洋服を選んでください。レース、フリル、えりくびが広めのブラウスなど、女性らしさを強調し、外国人男性が好むようなちょっとセクシーなお洋服を選んでください。日本のお見合い写真とは違いますので、スーツより、セクシーさやエレガントさがでるお洋服がGOODです!

メイクやお洋服ののアドバイスも致しますのでお気軽にお問合せくださいね。

以下のような写真はNGです!!


X 表情が硬すぎる写真
X スナップ写真
X 加工アプリで異常に加工している写真
× 画質(解像度)の悪い写真
X お酒を飲んだり、飲食中の写真
X 隣に男性が写っている写真

最近多いものが、加工アプリで異常に加工されている写真です。アプリを使われているのが分かると、アメリカの男性は受け入れない方が多いのでご注意ください。プロの方に編集までお願いするか、素のままで構いませんので笑顔の素敵な写真でトライされてくださいね!

素敵な写真はお見合いの第一歩です!これから弊社と二人三脚で頑張って参りましょう!!.

参考例

写真が完成したら次のステップ!英語で自己紹介文を書いてみよう!

自分をアピールしてみよう!

例えば
『趣味は料理です』
と伝えたい場合、
『私は料理を作るのが大好きです。こんな時にこんな料理を作ってあげたいな!』
と可愛く伝えるのがポイント☆

素敵な女性像がみえるように文章を考えてみましょう!英語が難しい場合は随時ご相談くださいね!

まずは書いてみましょう♪
そしてEMCLUBへメールで送信くださいませ。

参考自己紹介文

この例文は、みなさんが文章として参考に使えるように長文にしてあります。
文章は長くなくて構いません!アピール文の作成を是非頑張ってみてくださいね♪



参考例①
【最初に自分の紹介】
KONNICHIWA!! Let me introduce myself first.
I was born and raised in Yamatokoriyama city Japan. I have a younger brother. I studied and finished a 2 years course majoring in Airports and Airlines Job. I've been living with my parents and 2 my lovely chihuahua's eversince. Although I'm prepared and ready to be independent, I chooce to stay with them until I find the right person to live with.

I am currentlly working in a business hotel as a front desk clerk in Nara city, Japan.
Guests from different countries comes in every day. A chance for me to learn and practice my english more. I would also love to practice my english privately with someone who I can spend time with and enjoy my everyday. I will be my preasure to teach someone japanese too.

【趣味の紹介】
First of all, I love to drive. Travelling is my hobby, I was a tour counducter for several years until 5 years ago. If you ask a travel agency, the travel fee is high, do not you?
 I will arrange by myself of all my air tickets and hotel arrangements.
Because, I think that can be enjoyed most efficiently. So, If we go on a trip in Japan, I will arrange everything, drive a car and make a fun trip!!  I do not know details about Hawaii yet, so I want you tell me a nice place in Hawaii, delicious food.

【将来について】
If I meet a wonderful person, I would like to live in Hawaii as soon as possible.  Normally, I must file a declaration one month in advance to quit my company. But, I love my current job and I am proud. So, I want to tell the company more than 6 month ago to quit. Because I want to polite handover to my colleagues. When I become a couple, I'd like to prepare without misbehaving for a year or two until marriage. I believe that it is okay for me and you to stay away in Japan and Hawaii for the sake of the future.

And when I live in Hawaii, I work as a Japanese staff at the hotel, or Japanese restaurant, and take care of the protected dog. I want to open a cafe with my husband and me after 50 years old.


参考例②

Hi! Let me share about myself and some of my interests with you. I start off with my background. I was born and raised in Yokosuka, Japan. Have two siblings, a brother and a sister. Finished college in Tokyo and moved to Seattle, spent a summer and fall there and moved down to Los Angeles. I earned my degree in Graphic Design and worked as a web designer in Torrance, California. I ended up living in California for about 5 years. After I came back to Japan, I had several jobs and had been working at U.S. Naval ship repair facility for last 8 years. Then I got my current job in Tokyo last June. I currently live in Yokohama.
My hobbies are cooking, going to beach or hiking (I like being surrounded by nature), snowboarding, snorkeling, going to onsen (hot spring) and eating out (and drinking socially). As for cooking, I like to cook not only Japanese/Asian but any kind of dishes. I cooked Ahijo (Spanish dish) last night and it was super yummy! I grow some veggies/herbs and often add them to my dishes. I love to cook sweet stuff too. Also I like serving my dishes to my family and friends because I love the moment when they smile and say “ono”! Ok, enough about my cooking!

And I have to tell you this, I am a big animal lover. I have been volunteering to help finding homeless cats and dogs permanent loving homes. I would appreciate if my future partner also loves animals.

And this is something I can be proud of, I am a certified acupuncturist (have Japanese national license) and good at giving massage. My future partner would be lucky If my time and financial resources allow, I would like to obtain state or national license in Hawaii and eventually start my own acupuncture clinic! I have been having this entrepreneur idea and some business plans. I would say my ultimate goal is to start my own business! But I will never be negligent of chores and everyday works so no worries

Besides, I have an interest in spirituality and open to ideas such as “synchronicity” and “law of attraction” and like to read this type of books as well. The idea behind acupuncture is also “Qi” which we cannot see but it actually does exist. Do you believe in this? You reading my profile may not be a coincidence

I like to go out with my partner, friends and family but I also like to spend time alone reading books at a cafe, listening to music or even net surfing. This re-energizes myself to start a week again. Of course, I love to drink wine and heart-to-heart talk with my partner late into Saturday night, wake up together and cuddle in a blanket on Sunday morning, munch pizza and watch movie together on a couch in a lazy evening or have a cup of coffee listening sound of rain together on a rainy day!

Please feel free to ask me anything and let me hear about your story as well. Thank you for reading my profile.




参考例③
Hello! Let me introduce myself :)
I was born and raised in Kobe-city, and currently I am living in Akashi which is the neighbor city of Kobe, where there are some beautiful beaches ( not like the beaches in Hawaii though...), mountains and hills.

I love walking along the beaches and the lakes to enjoy natural breeze rather than to go shopping ( I go shopping when I need to get something)
I was an amateur skier until 25 years old, I used to participate in the competitions in my local areas. I used to play wind surfing as well since my father taught me :) I played it in Kailua once, that was really fun!
I like sports not only watching but also playing ;) So that would be great if I could to do something with my partner.
There are 3 things I keep close to my heart, God, family and fulfilling my life with love.
Because of the upbringing with my caring parents, I think I am well mannered, educated, and fun loving person :)
I am from very average family though, I think I have been given richness of spirit from them.
All I need is a happy life with my loved ones. I would like to make a happy family just like my parents gave to us. I am a mother of 2 sons. They are very outgoing, active and loving kids. I know they need to be brought up free from all care in a good environment, and I feel that I can give the good one in Hawaii.
I would like to share lots of fun and happy moments with my partner. I would like to try new things with him and discover "new me" together.

I wish my partner could be a good father/man model that the kids can look up to...I would like them to see and know how they should be as a good man. But the most important thing is to be with someone who can love me and whom I can love forever. I believe the kids would learn how to care/love someone from us :)
I am open minded, positive and easygoing. I am very sociable, I talk to anyone nicely and with respect. I tend to show different part of myself to my special someone. ( that doesn't mean I get arrogant)
My dream is to have "Banana Pancake" or "Better Together" kind of life :) I would like to wake up every morning with my love and cherish small and simple moments in our lives. I am sure there might be some troubles or conflicts in our lives, but I would like to resolve them until the end of the day, and fall asleep together peacefully. I think everything will be okay if we could work this way together...
What I love(to do)
- sports : I used to work out at the gym when I was a skier. I don't have enough time to do that now though, I still try to keep myself healthy and good shape.
- music : I often play the piano because I love the sound of it. I enjoy listening to many kinds of genre, such as classic, rock, oldies, R&B, country music, gospel... but I think I listen to slow, nice, healing songs most of the time. Depends on the mood :)
artists I like : Whitney Houston, Celine Dion, Jennifer Lopez, Jack Johnson, Coldplay, some Japanese singers..I can't list them all.
- cooking & eating : I cook Japanese food ( of course), Chinese, Italian, some ethnic foods. I sometimes invite my friends to my home and cook something for them. I love to see them enjoying my dish ;) I love BBQ and picnic as well.
- motor sports : I am not a big fan of something specific, but I get excited when I watch races :) I like driving as well. Although I like races, I drive safely. I have never gotten ticket.
- challenge : I like trying new things. Now I am going to a university( correspondence course) to study psychology and business management. It's a big challenge for me, learning and meeting new people at school inspire me a lot :)
What I wrote here is just some parts of myself. I am open to share any topics, so please feel free to ask me any questions. I would like to get to know each other eventually thoughout the conversation. Thank you for reading my profle and I look forward to hearing from you!





頂いた自己紹介文と写真をもとに
あなたのプロファイルを完成します!
(2~3日)

写真やプロフィールは随時アップデート可能です!

もし、いいお返事が頂けない時は、プロファイルのアップデートをおすすめします!私たちスタッフもアドバイスを随時いたしますのでお気軽にご相談くださいね!成婚までは自分磨きを忘れずに!!

さぁ婚活のスタートです!!!

男性会員様からお気に入りの方を見つけましょう!

弊社HP、そしてブログからお気に入りの男性をチェックください!ご紹介スタートと同時に男性会員様のプロフィールと必ず顔写真、全身写真もお送りさせて頂いております。 ブログ掲載の男性会員様も全てご覧頂けます。気になる方がいましたらお伝え頂ければその都度ご紹介が可能です!
ハワイへ渡航して直接お会いする時まで『男性会員様の容姿が分からない』となるとお相手の事をイメージしずらいですよね。 『想像していた方と全く違う』といった事を避けるため、安心のサービスを提供致します! 全ての男性会員様にお写真の公開の許可を頂き入会して頂いております。信頼関係とクオリティーに自信があるからこそできるものです!

成婚まで頑張りましょう!

私たちは随時アドバイス、そしてアップデートのお手伝いを致します!

何か分からない事や、不安な点など、なんでもお気軽にご相談ください!専門スタッフが随時サポートいたします!!

お問合せ

ハワイで人生のパートナーをみつけましょう!